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Easter
He got up.And because He got up — so can we. Easter isn’t just about a resurrection from over 2,000 years ago.It’s about every single time we rise from what tried to bury us. The heartbreak.The disappointment.The shame.The loneliness.The quiet nights when nobody checked in.The loud ones when everybody had something to say but didn’t…
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Good Friday
Good Friday isn’t flashy. It doesn’t come with the celebration of Easter or the pageantry of Palm Sunday.It’s quiet. Heavy. A sacred kind of stillness that makes you pause, whether you planned to or not. Today, we remember a moment that changed everything — the crucifixion of Christ. But this isn’t just a story about…
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When Disrespect Closes the Door for Good
“Disrespect can permanently shut doors that apologies cannot re-open. Read that again.” Whew. That line? It doesn’t just speak—it warns. We live in a culture where apologies are often treated like magic erasers. As if the right words, spoken with just enough remorse, can undo harm and reset the room. But here’s the truth that…
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Let People Show You
“Let people do what they wanna do, so you see what they’d rather do. That’ll answer all the questions you have.” I saw this quote while scrolling, and whew—if it didn’t gather me up gently and then slap me with the truth. So much of our pain—our confusion, our resentment, our overthinking—comes from trying to…
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Woman to Woman… But Make It Real
Play this while you read: Shirley Brown – Woman to Woman Toni, lissen… You said you came “woman to woman.”But let’s get this straight:You came to colonize my inbox with a crash course in My Ancestors 101, an unsolicited TED Talk about your French fleeing Napoleon, your Germans dodging Hitler, and a scrapbook of ethnic…
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Here’s $20—And That’s All You’re Getting
So, I’m at Starbucks. Just writing, zoning out, doing what I usually do—getting lost in the rhythm of my thoughts and my keyboard. I had been there for a few hours. So had the man sitting behind me. He seemed harmless. Quiet. Sipping his drink. Occasionally glancing out the window. Then, without much fanfare, he…
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Dear Black People: The Next Time They Mention Chicago…
Dear Black People, Let’s talk strategy. We’ve all been there. You’re minding your Black business, maybe talking about systemic inequality or the latest police brutality case, and suddenly some Fox News–fed defender of the mythic “American dream” jumps into the conversation with the intellectual equivalent of a rubber chicken: “But what about Black-on-Black crime in…
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When Boundaries Feel Like Betrayal
I said “no” for the first time in a long time. Not out of spite. Not because I don’t care. Not because I’m disengaged. But because I simply didn’t have the bandwidth to give more of myself in that moment. I still offered to attend, to show up, to support in spirit and presence. But…
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Career Pivot Starter Guide
Welcome to your Career Pivot Starter Guide — a companion resource to Episode 2 of Talk Thirty To Me. This guide is designed to help you reflect, plan, and take action as you consider changing your career in your thirties. Let’s get started. Take your time. Be honest. This is for YOU. Reflect: Why Do…
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More Than a Paycheck: What Michelle Obama Really Taught Us About Love, Money, and Partnership
When Michelle Obama speaks, the world listens. And during a recent episode of her IMO podcast with her brother and co-host, Craig Robinson, she did what she does best—she dropped wisdom so quietly powerful that it sent shockwaves through social media. The conversation? Money and relationships.The question? “Would you be attracted to a guy who’s…
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Barefoot in the Winter, Pregnant in the Summer: The Quiet Horror Hidden in a Common Phrase
Today I learned something I wish I’d known sooner. We’ve all heard the phrase “keep her barefoot and pregnant” tossed around as a joke, a half-hearted insult, or a vague reference to patriarchal control. But what many of us didn’t know—what I didn’t know—was the full phrase:“Keep her barefoot in the winter, and pregnant in…
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Ticketmaster Is a Scam, Not a Service: Why It’s Time to Stop Playing Their Game
Let’s just say it plainly: Ticketmaster is not a ticketing service anymore. It’s a gatekeeping, money-hoarding, user-hostile monster that has corrupted the live entertainment experience for everyone—artists and audiences alike. Once upon a time, going to see your favorite performer felt like magic. Now, it feels like battling a bot army in a digital arena…
